sharing me and my mothers story in hopes to let others know they aren’t alone in their own journey as a young mature adult trying to manage your senior aged mother and attempting to first letting her know she deserves better lifestyle. expressing to the world how hard it is being away from your mother especially as she is getting older and the last 2 years exhibiting signs of memory loss. she has established long term chronic illnesses that impair her from leading a normal life. my mother has always had a problem with substance abuse and leading a double life. My love for my mother is so real but frustration has increased for lack of her being able to even partially properly care for herself, letting herself go both physically and mentally. making it of importance to get her moved closer to her only child, which she profusely and continuously relays to me that is her wish, but no effort has been from her end. I too am limited, as I am not her, her legal caregiver, or even written lega;l consent granting permission for me to have the right to speak and make moves on her behalf. as far as paperwork is needed from her to confirm and know certain information to even establish making the first step toward improved living conditions and living close to a relative (myself her claimed most prized possession) that can advocate on her behalf. AND she seems to be exhibiting signs of a worsen mental and addictive state. every phone call is the beginning of a new day and conversation and changes the subject anytime something of importance is brought up, speaks volumes, a change with the help of a grant or another means of sponsored funding through a organization or charity to facilitate my mama’s move closer to me is what is necessary to complete move successfully. also, would have to switch her doctors to out here, update and notify housing commission and disability check people of her even wanting to move out here. she would then need help with a U-Haul, packing her stuff, loading it onto a truck, driving truck out here, move into new place, then drop truck off at local place. I never even took care of a child and the child being in my full custody so this places alot on my already strained shoulders as my living situation is ideal for me serving where I’m at in life but it does have its rules and time occupational constriants